What's good about South Africa

My South Africa, it is one of the countries that are unique in its own way. I am proud to say I am a black Xhosa South African, our country is beautiful and have beautiful people. We are all brothers and sisters. I love my country for we are the United Kingdom. Our anthem explains what type of people you find in this country. With our 9 Provinces I can go to any of them and live there for the rest of my life. We are proudly South African; with our brothers and sisters from the whole world we are all united. I love my world, I love my country, I love my province, and I love my city. I love my brothers and sisters. 

Try a cliche

Most of the time we get used to the way we do things and ending up not seeing there are other ways to follow. It is good to use the same way, for example when I go to town I use the side of J&B house not because there are no other ways I can use but I am used to it. In life there are so many ways to use but it differs which way you take, yes it is important to check other ways but if it’s not working out for you, why change?. As for me I saw that it was good for me to use J&B line, it is good not that it is easier than the others but I prefer it. Trying other cliché is good but if it’s not working out, why should I bother? We get used to things in a way that is doesn’t matter if there are other ways to take but as long as I can reach the destiny.

Take a pause in life and reflect on the mistakes and see where can I change, how can I do better? What is it that needs to be changed….At times we even have to change who we walk with if we see they are not adding any value to our lives. Spend you quantity time with something that we lift you up, change is good for everyone.

Try another cliché it might work out, something different will  be good.

Feelings follow behavior

Most of the time, we think behavior follows feelings but here it is different. Our behavior shows how we feel, every action that i make it is how i felt before I behave.
Behavior can be positive or negative depends on the act that one did, most cases anger  makes people behave in a negative manner and it leads people to have issues they can't solve at that time. Anger can make you to do anything that you feel at the time but we all ought to be careful of the feelings because they don't last forever but behavior last forever.

Behavior will never be erase but can be forgiven, as for the feelings they can change and they are based on the emotions, situation.
Feelings are known by one person but the behavior can be exposed to a number of people. It is good to think before we act and to control our feelings, not to act based on the atmosphere we in.

Most of the time we like using the common word "i feel like" but we all know the results of our feelings. It happens to feel good but the behavior is bad, it takes one to decide to follow the feelings.

From being helped to be a helper

I had no vision but He gave me one
I had no love but He showed me one
I had no true friend but He became my true friend
I thought I had a life but He gave me abundance of life
The Lord was there all this time
        He was there for me
I didn't know but now i know He was there all this time
He came into my life and made everything beautiful in its own time.

You know when you think you had it all by yourself and try to make it through but nothing comes out, instead failure comes. At that time that when you start realizing that you need a helper by your side but we are all different and we have different helpers, it does't matter who is the helper but acknowledge that not all thing i can do by my own without consulting someone else.

Trust me it changed so many lives, be the helper to someone else is the best key to prosperity. Realizing that i need a helper makes me aware that as well someone else needs a helping hand. I started to avail myself to help  another person and it did not only change the person but myself.

Love

No one can change love, no one describe love except the one who is love the Almighty God. Love is patient and kind, love does not envy or boast it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way. It is not irritable or resentful.

 It does not rejoice at wrong doing but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things and endures all things.

1 Corinthians 13: 4-7

It is better to Practice a little than talk a lot

Most people have the same problem of talking a lot but there is no evidence. We make so many promises but we don't keep them.
Talking a lot without action it is like, your words are empty, it is easy to talk and plan but when it comes to implement the vision gets difficult.

Common Phrase: Action speaks louder than words, this means we all have to act.

Appreciation to my Parents

I thank my parents for the wonderful graduation day ever, they have made for special for me that day. I know in my life if it was not for them i would not be who I am today. I am this Proud young lady today because of their teachings. God gave them in my life for a purpose,  when you write something from the heart you don't know how to express it but THANK YOU means a lot.

We are young and beautiful, give thanks to your Grandmother, Grandfather, Mother, Father, Uncle and Aunt  for all the effort they have done in your life and your life will never be the same again.